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DIT (Do It Themselves): Mother’s Day Fruit Plates… Help Them to Treat You Right!

Not to brag, but I am fairly lucky when it comes to my children’s eating habits.  My seven year old is not only willing to try anything, but she actually makes conscious decisions to eat healthy (ok bragging a little).  I’ve seen her bypass  a cookie for a peach, filling my heart with happiness. My youngest is pickier, but at age five she is also making smart choices, though will seldom pass up that cookie.

IMG_2112I’ve never had much trouble getting them to eat fruits and veggies, but when it is dessert time, some coaxing is often in order to keep them satisfied with simply fruit.  It’s my own fault.  I’m a big fan of dessert myself, so it sometimes becomes a bit of a habit until I remind myself to break that cycle.

My favorite way to make the fruit more enticing is toIMG_0982
make fruit plates. Sometimes they are elaborate, sometimes simply silly.  Regardless – they always get a great response and then gobbled up!  Not only do we enjoy eating them, but they are also a real pleasure to create.  It’s become something of a zen activity for me.

You can only imagine my joy when my little ones began asking me to cut fruit for them to design their own fruit plates!  It’s become quite a hobby for my youngest and I must say she’s got a knack for it.  We often incorporate veggies too.

Now I  really will start bragging.  Last weekend I was awakened twice with fruit plates IMG_2141made with child labor and love.  The one to the right was admittedly made with help from my man – there’s even an egg in the bowl at its center ~ super yum! Perhaps the best part, is when the girls announce themselves proudly and climb into my bed to help me eat their delicious art!

I can’t wait to see what my lovelies create for me next weekend!

Help your kiddos treat you!  Simply cut the fruit the night before and keep it in covered containers in the fridge.  Leave a plate out within their reach and earn yourself an extra 15 minutes or more of sleep!  Proudness and sweetness all around!

Please share any “Do it Themselves” Mother’s Day ideas by commenting below – the more the merrier!

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Repurpose Those Chocolate Bunnies ~ Easter Fondue!

images-8Still have Easter candy around a week later? After “candy holidays” like Easter and Halloween, I can’t wait to get rid of the stuff for a few reasons: the begging and the pleading, the cavities, the appetite ruining, and most of all my own midnight snacking.

Luckily Easter, at least for us, presents fewer issues than Halloween. Its nice to have some control over what goes into the basket and how much of it. I’m no grinch-bunny though and after having a gang of three year olds around our place for an egg and bunny hunt in the yard, there was plenty of candy left over. And my son knew it.

The following few mornings were the stuff of nightmares. He wanted chocolate bunnies 553752_10151569174216233_872037726_nfor breakfast. He refused all other options. No amount of explanation, negotiation or consolation seemed to make the slightest difference. Despite the screaming, I switched my focus to getting some waffles made, cutting fruit and then… the bunnies. I heated a small sauce pan, added a little coconut oil, two hollow chocolate bunnies, some milk, the little guy helped me stir… and Voila! We had fondue… for breakfast, how decadent and yet efficient.

Now this magical compromise wasn’t an immediate success. Although he helped me prepare the fondue chocolate, once it was served I got a round of, “You killed my rabbits! They’re dead!” and “I want rabbits, not waffles!” We needed some calm down time: a snuggle and reading of Green Eggs And Ham. Then he was ready to try it. Did he like it? Of course he did. In fact, he said he would eat it with a goat or on a boat!

To Make:

images-7For fondue sauce – any leftover Easter chocolate will do. I used a dollop of coconut oil to make it saucier. Butter would work as well. Just melt the oil or butter in the pan, add the chocolate on low heat and stir continuously. As the chocolate begins to melt, add some milk. We used almond milk, but cow’s or rice or soy or hemp would work as well. Berries, grapes and apple slices are great in fondue. Use your imagination and just shove a toothpick in it. I had some gummy bears with vitamin C in them (bulk section at Whole Foods) and put them on the plate as well. They were yummy dipped in chocolate!

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Get It Girl!- The Importance of Girl/Me Time

A few weekends ago I was reminded of how important ‘girl time’ is. I was invited to one of my best friend’s bridal shower and had a blast!  My girlfriend is having an amazing DIY wedding, and she came up with the idea of getting all of her girlfriends together to make different items to be used for her wedding.  I was privileged enough to spend the afternoon surrounded by a group of very artistic and crafty women.  We all came together for the sole purpose of celebrating our friend by doing our best to make her wedding day gorgeous and special.  As I sat there wielding a hot glue gun, it all came flooding back to me.  Before being a mommy took up all of my time, I was always dreaming of and actually making different items for friends and family.  It was so much a part of my lifestyle I couldn’t hardly imagine myself not always doing it.  Yet, here I am with a completely different focus and now I spend my time dreaming up activities that I can do with my son.  The days of spending a whole afternoon in front of my sewing machine have now become play dates at the park.  I am in no way complaining, but after the weekend with my friends, I realized I miss my crafty time.  

As mothers, I think that we become so absorbed in our children we often lose important parts of ourselves. I don’t think it’s intentional – it just seems that our priorities shift.  At least for me, the things that were once so important became secondary to my child.  So much so that I didn’t even realize how much I was missing it. I think it happens to the best of us.  The time with my girlfriends made me realize that I too have needs, and those needs are every bit as important as my child’s needs.  Easier said then done, I know, but we mothers need to recognize it and not feel guilty about it.   Sometimes it’s important for us to put the kid down and pick ourselves back up again.  We will be much better mothers for it .

The short “kid-free” weekend with my friends left me feeling recharged and reenergized.  I came back a relaxed, happy and inspired mom.  Since then, I’ve made it a point to get back into the things I enjoy.  I came home and started my garden (something I haven’t even thought about in the last year), I’m taking steps to start a sewing group to learn to repurpose clothing I already have, and I’m hoping to dust off my sewing machine – and glue gun – and get crafting again.

In the end, I’m grateful to my friends for reawakening the part of me that needs to create something.  To think –  all it took was an afternoon with friends, wine, glue guns, and the hum of a sewing machine to get me going again.  I guess that’s what friends are for. Thanks Ladies!!

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Double Giveaway! Creative Gifting: Laurence King Publishing Ltd. Gift Guide

If you’ve read any of my posts then you’re familiar with my obsession with giving children gifts that promote creativity and learning.  Books are an obvious choice, I know.  But these aren’t just any old books.  Laurence King Ltd., a British publisher distributed in the U.S. by the  beloved Chronicle Books brings us some modern, interactive titles and more to fuel your child’s imagination, rocket-style!

Here are my picks for the kids in your life:

1. Magic and Fairy-tale Dice -  These give new meaning to the term “conversation starter”.  Simply roll the beautifully crafted wooden dice and include your resulting image in a story.  At $14.95 these are great for the classroom or home and fun for all ages – I quite enjoy them myself!  The whimsical images include an array of creatively classic storytelling components, including a frog, witch, phoenix, shamrock, and you-know-who’s little red cape.   The most magical thing about these magic dice is the way they get the gears in motion, my girls are so excited to add on to the story and love the challenge of including the random element determined by their rolls!

2. & 3. Let’s Make Some Great Placemat Art and Let’s Make Some Great Fingerprint Art by award winning illustrator Marion Deuchars are interactive workbooks designed in such a way that the child is practically collaborating with the author on some pages and being guided by her on others.  In the tradition of her Let’s Make Some Great Art (a personal favorite), these activity books provoke your child’s imagination.  Great springboards in the placemat book include inventing one’s own pasta shape and imagining what some illustrated people and birds might be dreaming about, at only $12.95 and 72 pages, this book is both affordable and will provide hours of inspiration.  Also, inspirational, the fingerprint book is exactly what you’d imagine, and then some!  Be sure to wrap a stamp pad or two with this one, as your recipient will use her own fingertips and hands to create a plethora of creatures and critters.  At $14.95 for a whopping 128 pages this is a winner for elementary kids and up!

4. My Wonderful World of Shoes by Nina Chakrabarti rides on the heels (pun fully intended) of My Wonderful World of Fashion and My Even More Wonderful World of Fashion, which I gave to my daughter last year and she still enjoys.  Inspire your future designer with styles from vintage to couture to color, embellish, and make their own!  $15.95 is a small price to pay for 144 pages of high fashion and more!  For an adorable sample of Chakrabarti’s adorably detailed footwear, check out this cute little video!

 WIN!

Enter to win one of two awesome prizes generously provided by Laurence King Publishing Ltd.!  They are giving one Takes a Village reader a set of Magic and Fairy-tale Dice and another reader will receive a My Wonderful World of Shoes activity book!

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Huge thanks to Laurence King Publishing Ltd. for providing terrific review materials!
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Book Review: Jadyn and The Magic Bubble Series ~ Teaching Awareness without Preaching it

It’s been a while since my girls have wanted to read the same book every night.  Now that they’re 4 and 7 they generally like to mix things up.  However, since we started reading Brigitte Benchimol’s award winning series of socially conscious and truly magical books, that’s changed.

Beginning with Jadyn and the Magic Bubble: Discovering India,  the reader travels to New Delhi and the Taj Mahal via their imagination and all of their senses.  This thoroughly researched book is anything but whimsical.  It is deeply educational and fascinating.  Not only have my children learned history and geography of India, but also how silk is made and about the daily hustle and bustle of city life there.

Always looking for ways to aid my children in becoming more socially aware, I am thrilled with Brigitte’s like-minded ideas, and even more so with her approach.  Discovering India manages to discuss poverty and Jadyn’s disconcerted reaction to it without telling them how to feel or think on the topic.  It is written as a gateway to discussion and meditation on the subject and for my family it has been an excellent tool.  I feel that it is never too early to start your kids on the path of having empathy for others and these books provide a great gateway.

The topic of the book’s sequel, I Met Ghandi is pretty self explanatory.  It is a history lesson that is anything but dull.  Benchimol turns learning and meditation into an adventure.  I personally picked up some new knowledge from this series and I appreciate that my children and I all are left pondering at the end of each title.  The author created this series with the goal of “empowering children to open their minds and expand their own potential”.  Worthy target, and I believe she hits the mark.

Kenya! Kenya! takes empathy to a different level.  Hosted by a talking giraffe, Jadyn gracefully learns about boundaries from an animal’s perspective.  The giraffe explains why hunting and poaching are major issues, but also addresses the way people tend to approach animals.  Kenya, Kenya provides food for thought – animals deserve personal space too!  We should be careful not to frighten or overwhelm them.

Not only are these books a journey of consciousness, but they are a safari for the senses as well!  Discovering India includes recipes, a patch of silk to feel, and a cd.  Also just released is an awesomely interactive iPad app based on Kenya! Kenya!   With coloring pages, Record your own voice and many other fabulous features – $5.99 for iPad owners Only.

I had the pleasure of meeting Brigitte Benchimol after learning that she lived locally to me.  Not only did I have the opportunity to interview her, but I gratefully had the chance to befriend her.  Brigitte has years of experience working with children, from teacher to pre-school owner/ director, she has made a wealth of observations that enable her to write in a way that appeals to all age levels.  She believes in not dumbing it down, finding the “parameters of vocabulary and word count condescending”.  Children will learn through context and questions.  I agree.

In addition to teaching compassion to children, Brigitte also teaches adults.  She conducts Peace Workshops in the Los Angeles area, utilizing her training in The Way of Council.    The council “fosters compassion, empathy, non-judgmental listening, kindness, understanding of self and others, reflection, social responsibility, feelings, depth, and purpose.  I’d be hard pressed to find anyone who couldn’t use a refresher in at least one of these areas.  For information on Brigitte’s workshops, please email her at bbenchy@mindspring.com.

 

The inspiring Jadyn series is available for purchase right here at the Village!  Brigitte has even offered signed copies to our readers!  Simply send an email to julie@takesavillage.net, including which books you’d like to purchase, and your email address or phone number.  These books are a journey worth taking.

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DIY Spotlight and Giveaway! Capes by Daisha – Help Your Kid’s Imagination Soar!

My name is Daisha and I am Designs By Daish.  For years I have been crafting little treasures for my two crazy boys and for my friends and their kids.  Last year, my Mother-In-Law (who has been mastering the craft of crochet, sewing and many other forms of artistry for over 40 years now) and I decided to do some craft fairs and boutiques.  We had so much fun that we decided to take things to the next level by opening our Etsy shop to get the word out about our handmade products.

My Mother-In-Law has raised 4 children and has 9 grandchildren.  I am a stay-at-home mom to my two boys, 6 and 3.  My husband and I just celebrated our 12th wedding anniversary and life is just moving right along!  We are unique in that we adopted our first son and enjoy an extremely open adoption with his birth parents (yes…both of them!!) and then after 8 years of infertility, we were surprised and very excited to find ourselves pregnant with boy #2 shortly after boy #1 turned two (we couldn’t have planned that better!!).

I enjoy my role as a wife and mother but crafting gives me something that nothing can…the ability to create and be artistic and expressive.  I hope the winner of this custom cape has a child who will enjoy it as much as my two little super heroes enjoy theirs.

Win One!

As for the giveaway…the winner will get to pick EVERY little detail!!  These capes are REVERSIBLE which is wonderful because one side can be adorned with your child’s name and the other side can be their favorite superhero, phrase (BAM!  Ka-Pow!!  Zap!!), etc.  Or for those princesses out there, their cape can be adorned with a crown, flowers or anything you can think of!  You can have each side be a different fabric color…for example, a princess cape could have a pink base on one side and a purple base on the other.  Heroes could have their favorite color on the side with their name and the color that best suits their favorite superhero on the other.  Sky is the limit…so don’t be afraid to get creative!!  These capes are attached at the neck with velcro, which allows for even a toddler to easily put them on and take them off themselves.  Capes are one size fits all from approximately 2 years old all the way up to 8 or 9 years old…which is when most kids don’t want to be superhero’s or princesses anymore. The decals on the capes are handmade, iron on and then stitched into place securely with a sewing machine.  They will stand the test of time…no decals falling on the floor here!

We offer many, many products in our Etsy shop.  Come check us out!  It is a perfect place for baby shower gifts, birthday gifts and much, much more!

Enter to win the giveaway below:

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Special thanks to Daisha for her guest article and giveaway!

 

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Giveaway! Make Your Memories Even More Unique: This is Your Book by Ryan Maconochie

I admit it.  I did a horrible job of organizing my daughters’ baby books.  I regret it already, but I was too busy enjoying the little ones and too exhausted when they were asleep.  I do plan to get it together, I swear!

I took millions of photos and wrote down some sentimentalities, and tons of others are still fresh in my mind.  It’s never too late I suppose.  Although…. a little help would be nice.  Now that my eldest is reading and writing, I thought it would be fun to enlist her help!

So, I did some research and I found the perfect basis for our project… This is Your Book by Ryan Maconochie is not your average baby book. After unsuccessfully searching for a book worthy of chronicling his daughter’s first year, he decided to create his own, using his graphic design skills and sharp style.  The unique and colorful result is a keeper, as it should be!

Not only is the design modern and original, but the categories and details to be filled in are descriptive and ill be fascinating for a lifetime and then some!  Aside from pages on which to circle your child’s birthstone, eye and hair color, and heritage(s), Maconochie has included topics such as the cost of a Starbucks coffee, movie ticket, and a gallon of gas, to name just a few.  Pop-culture gets even more shout-outs with pages for lists of the current news anchors, celebrities, parents’ favorite movies, and more.

In addition to areas to list very specific milestones, there are also pages for logging the child’s first year in travel and a separate page for pasting a photo of each month leading up to their first birthday.

Published by Abrams imprint stewart tabori & chang, This Is Your Book has revolutionized the baby book as we knew it.  Modestly priced, at $16.95 for a for 112 8 x 8½ pages, this might just be the perfect hipster (or anyone) baby shower gift!  It’s also been a really fun  bonding experience, filling it out retroactively alongside my six year old.  I’d highly recommend it who anyone who slacked that first year and is looking to make up for lost time!

 

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tabori stewart & chang is giving two very lucky Takes a Village Readers each their own copy of the This Is Your Book!  

To enter simply comment below with a detail you’d like to include in a child’s first book of memories!

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Congratulations to winners Lola and Lyndsey!
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Don’t Mess with the Fat Man

There has been much recent media regarding the Santa Claus myth.  A New York school teacher pissed off a lot of people by telling her second grade class he does not exist.  A Chicago news anchor has been admonished and forced to publicly apologize for sharing the same sentiment on the air.

These stories have sparked a heated holiday debate.  Some believe that Santa creates unrealistic expectations and that is wrong to ever mislead our children, while others feel that Santa is the pleasantly plump cornerstone of this jolly season.

Personally, I believe that childhood is the time for imagination and magical thinking.   In fact I believe that it is the foundation for early childhood.  Kids being kids.  AND I can actually back this up with the theory of Jean Piaget.   His stages of development are consistently taught and referenced in the studies of child development.  The first stage is the Pre-operational stage, where magical thinking predominates and motor skills are acquired.  This exists from ages 2-7. “Children cannot conserve or use logical thinking.”

Okay, so they are incapable of logical thought.  Why not have some illogical fun while they’re young?  Kids’ incredibly colorful imaginations should be nurtured.

Although I am of Jewish descent I have always celebrated Christmas in some way, somewhere.  As a child I would help decorate the  tree in my father’s classroom.  Later I spent the day at my best friend’s house and during my teen years with my boyfriend and his family. Since then, varied friends over the years have welcomed me to share the spirit(s).

My daughters’ father is of Catholic descent, so when we were together we introduced and enjoyed both Hanukkah and Christmas to the girls (lucky ducks!).  Since our divorce, I’ve continue to celebrate both.  We have a menorah and a Christmas tree.  Our lights outside are blue and white!

I perpetuate Santa because he adds even more magic to a festive season.  Last year my six year old put me in a tough spot though, by asking if he was real.  Apparently talk on the playground was that he might not be.  Now, being the divorced Jewish parent, I certainly do not want to be one to rain on the Santa parade, and I want the innocence and mystique of childhood to last for as long as possible.  Kids grow up so damn quickly these days!

I responded with a question, “Do you think he’s real?”.  She wasn’t too sure.  I looked into her sparkling hazel eyes and told her, “He’s real if you believe, and he sure does bring a lot of presents!”

She hasn’t asked again since.

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